Chapter 1525: Sweet burden (8)

Xia Siyu was half amused and half speechless and said: "Sleep with you, it's

so knowledgeable." Even the husband and wife ran to watch the expansion

documentary when they got along.

It’s not that Bo Yan couldn’t hear the ridicule in her tone. He didn’t deny

it. He just said: “In fact, after you said it last time, I also reflected on

myself. I think I respect women very much, but there are some things. It's

really subtle. For example, we usually get along, even if you make a little

noise, I won't think there is anything, but I still think that the wife is

married by herself, and she has to be spoiled on her knees. But why do women

have to be spoiled by men? Oh, I’m not saying you can’t pet. I mean, the

word'pet' sounds very subordinate, just like—you treat your pet dog or pet

cat.”

In many movies and romantic novels, the male protagonist is the "petting

wife". But in fact, the so-called "petting wife" means that the wife loves her

no matter what she does, spending money on her, doing things for her,

sheltering her from wind and rain, and creating a generous life for her, as if

this is love.

But think about it, don’t you do the same with your dog and cat? Spoil it,

spend money on it, do things for it, and help it shelter from wind and rain.

You are reluctant to eat steak yourself, but you are willing to buy dozens of

catties for dogs and cats. I can't bear to buy expensive clothes, but I buy

cute little clothes and toys for dogs and cats, most of which are not cheap.

When someone scolds your dog and cat, you are more aggrieved than it, for fear

that it will be harmed a little bit.

But, will you fall in love with your dog or cat? The kind of love that refers

to love. Not at all?

Because you know that you are the master, even if you laugh at yourself as a

"poop shovel officer", you are also the master.

You and your dog and cat will never be equal. There are many so-called

"spoiling wives" in society nowadays, and there is never an equal existence

between men and women. It's just a self-conceited fantasy in the name of

"love".

Once you try to break this kind of false warmth, such as letting your children

follow their mother's surname, believe it or not, most men simply cannot

accept it.

The so-called equality must at least be equal to each other, not only

economically, but also psychologically.

Xia Siyu and Bo Yan are in this situation at least for now, even if they are

separated, they will be able to live well in the future. However, being

together is not because of marriage, but because of liking, because of the

feeling of being together.

Although she was sighed just now, Xia Siyu didn't mean that she could fully

understand it, but she probably knew it.

She also smiled and said: "Then if you say so, I will spoil you more in the

future."

"That's not necessary." He wasn't complaining, nor was he explaining anything

in the opposite direction. He just felt that since they are a husband and

wife, since they already have such an idea, they can speak out frankly and

honestly.

She is a heaven and earth, and he is willing to take care of it on the side.

Not because of any "petting", but because he really likes her. The husband and

wife also need to complement each other. He has a calm personality and finds a

wife like him. It is estimated that he will not say anything about it for ten

years, and will only continue to misunderstand.

But Xia Siyu was different. She was straightforward, she would never hold

anything in her heart when she had a word, and she would say whatever she

thought. In case you find someone like her too, it's not just a powder keg,

two people will explode at one point.