Chapter 334 of 1032
Chapter 334: The dutiful man in a patriarchal family (2)
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Tian Jing's suppressed emotions spewed out at that moment, her eye circles
were red, she bit her lips and choked, turned her head to the corner, her
shoulders trembled.
She was not willing, because the pressure in the big city was too great. She
was alone for too long. The meat that fell from her was her deepest concern
and thought.
Ji Huai put his hand on her shoulder and comforted her, "One is also to raise,
and two are also to raise. Since it comes, it will be life. Just work harder."
He followed the crowd, and he was a bit resigned.
"What about your parents? Are they willing to stay? We are still living in
this house. It is impossible not to be affected. My sister-in-law gave birth
to two and knocked out two. She will have to regenerate in the future. Don't
give up until you have a boy." She was also a little excited, expressing her
dissatisfaction, she pressed the tears in her eyes, helpless and grief, "Is it
a fertility machine? Am I going to be like this?"
She didn't want to say these words originally, because it was a matter of
clarification, she could only secretly plan in her heart, but since Ji Huai
said to stay and not regenerate, then she had to make it clear.
She can walk step by step to the present, it means that she is not a
temperament to be manipulated, she is more like a hedgehog, sensitive and
suspicious, will put up armor to protect herself and the people she wants to
protect.
Ji Huai was also a little silent by her, and he pondered for a while and
explained, “I don’t know about the older brother and sister-in-law, but
sister-in-law herself should also want to have a boy. I don’t care. If this
stays, we will definitely not I can’t afford it when I’m born. I want to stay.
I don’t know what you think."
Tian Jing didn’t think too much, and listened to him continue to say, “The
children are born and raised by us. Parents will definitely make trouble, but
if they make trouble, they can only make trouble. In order to resolve
conflicts, they can’t live together. , We have to live, but in this case, the
money we invested is equivalent to no more."
When they built the house, they paid out 200,000, which is more than that.
Although she was in the same company, her salary was one and a half higher
than his. He didn't spend any money and smoked again. She saved most of the
money. After building the house, I bought furniture and purchased things. In
addition, Ji Tianqi was born. She has no job. The child is often sick. She has
to pay her social security. They have not paid off their credit cards.
The past few years have been very tight, and this year I plan to save some
savings for my children to attend a better kindergarten.
Tian Jing calmed down, exhaled vigorously, and began to think seriously.
If they go out, the mountains will be pressed down against them, and they
can't breathe just thinking about it.
If you want to get something, you have to exchange it for something else. She
has always understood this. She looked at him, “Although it’s not very
pleasant to get along at home, Mom can help us to cook Kiki while cooking
Shanshan and Miao Miao Fan. We don’t have to pay rent and utility bills. Just
pay one thousand a month for food. Qiqi's insurance has to be bought again,
and she has to pay for her kindergarten. I also have to pay for social
security, and I have to pay back my credit card. You can save a few thousand
yuan on rent at home. Your salary After tax, there are no more than ten
thousand. Have you thought about these issues?"
These are very real problems. Their life will be much harder than they are
now. Ji Huai's idea is very simple. He has not suffered much. Although he is
two years older than her, his mind is far from her mature and rational.
She will come over no matter how hard she is, but he may not be able to, she
is afraid that he will not be able to bear the pressure, because he is a
person who has grown up smoothly and is different from her.
In her gaze, Ji Huai's eyes sank. He obviously didn't expect to be so thin. He
moved his lips and didn't immediately answer the conversation. His brows were
also twisted tightly. The hope in Tian Jing's eyes slowly dimmed again.
Ji Huai said, "Don't think about it all at once."
"How can I not think about it? Moving out is to live, and I can't help you
with my child." Tian Jing looked at him without anxiousness, only felt
powerless, and her words became a little tired, "No Just say that you are born
with one mouth, and move out when you say that you move out. Don’t you think
things are so simple? Don’t be emotional."
It would be very difficult for this child to give birth without a quarter
father and mother, let alone so many obstacles. Raising children now is not as
simple as it was decades ago.
Ji Huai shook her hand and slowly explained her voice, "I have no feelings,
don't be too anxious, think about everything in one go. The credit card will
be paid in half a year, and Qiqi's insurance is still there. It took a few
months to pay. The kindergarten is next year. If you don’t have any money, you
can pay by credit card and then pay in installments. I owed a few credit cards
before, but I paid it back over the past two years.
"We only need to ensure that we have income, a source of livelihood, and that
we can move out without embarrassment. We have no vicious debts and no
squandering. We have the ability to make money. If we survive, the days will
pass by."
She has always been alone, she has nowhere to go, she feels insecure and feels
that no one can help her. She thinks everything well and arranges many things,
so she is very anxious. Her career is very hard, her life is tense, and her
mood is relatively unstable. He has always been her mood stabilizer.
Tian Jing's irritability was gradually relieved. When he looked at him, a sour
and hot sensation surged to the tip of his nose, tears in his eyes, as if he
took off his armor suddenly, revealing his fragile and soft heart.
Ji Huai reached out and hugged her in his arms, covered her back with his
hands, patted and soothed again and again, and whispered in her ear, "Remove
your social security of about two thousand and four, and remove the rent of
about three thousand. , If we return the credit card again, we won’t be
starved, and the credit card doesn’t have to be paid back immediately. It’s
okay to apply for one or two rescues. We can’t go to a bilingual kindergarten
for the time being. If we can’t apply for interest classes and early
education, we will not report it first. If we have money, we will let her go.
Don’t arrange everything at once. There will be as much money as you can."
"Don't think too much, put too much pressure on yourself. You are stressed and
anxious to sleep. It is not good for you and your children. We only need to
save a sum of money for your pregnancy checkup and hospitalization every
month. Nothing else is in a hurry."
"En." Tian Jing nodded gently in his arms, reminding him with a cry of voice,
"Don't you still have some provident fund? It can be used for the rent. I'll
let it go. It should be half a year?"
The company is very stupid, and only pays at 5%. They used to rent a house
before. Ji Huai has saved a little more this year, and it will probably be
worth half a year.
"Isn't it better in this case?" He smiled and looked down at her. In fact, he
thought about it, just letting out the worst result would raise her
expectations.
Tian Jing was not too embarrassed, and buried her head in his arms again. I
can't say that the situation is better, I can only say that I don't need to
apply for a credit card, but the days are definitely sad, and I can't run away
with hard work. A large amount of expenses and a large amount of expenses have
not been calculated.
"When I receive this month's salary, we will go to find a house. Don't tell my
parents, I will solve it." Ji Huai said his plan.
"Okay." She listened to him this time.
"Go to sleep." Ji Huai opened the quilt and lay down himself.
Tian Jing's grievances and boredom in the past few days have disappeared
without a trace, and most of her distress has been relieved, so she followed
him to sleep and moved to his side.
She gave birth to another and became pregnant. Now she actually wants to go
out to rent a house. Ji Huai does not earn much because of a high degree. In
the past, this condition was really terrible, but she didn’t think he was bad
at all. She has a good vision.
Conditions do not matter in front of these things.
Ji Huai just reached out to turn off the light, and noticed that she was
approaching, reached out to hug her, and then pulled the quilt up.
Although feeling the bitter days are coming, Tian Jingxin is relaxed and
happy. He fell asleep after holding him for a while, and was still asleep.
Ji Huai, who used to have a big heart, held her, sorting out the thoughts in
his mind. What he said just now was calm and gentle, he just transferred the
pressure from Tian Jing to himself.
At the end of his previous life, he quit his job at the company and found a
casual job with a monthly income of several thousand yuan. He thought he had
no pressure, and lived idle. Now he is about to support a family, and the
child is even more broken. For the banknote machine, if the life is too hard
and both of them are depressed, Tian Jing is afraid that he will be very
anxious. For him, it has directly started the difficult mode.
He was unwilling to let her endure hardship with him, so he had to carry a
family quickly.
Ji Huai didn't take her to the hospital on the grounds that she was busy at
work. Tian Jing relaxed and continued to take care of the children at home. By
the way, she took care of her body, and figured out when she left here and
what could be taken away.
He said he would not let her interfere in this matter and just leave it to
him.
Since the sister-in-law Ji was in confinement, Tian Jing also had to help take
her two daughters, or she had to exchange cooking and housework with her
mother.
Shanshan and Miaomiao were eight years old and five years old. When they were
formally naughty, Ji Tianqi was less than two years old. The three children
got together. It was okay when they had fun, and when they were crying, they
were more ruthless. Who Don't let anyone.
Tian Jing got a headache because of the quarrel, and Sister Ji went
downstairs. She was wearing a long dress and long sleeves, slippers on her
feet, and a mobile phone in her hand. She kept looking at her. Hearing crying
and looking at her two daughters, she scolded. The voice, "Shanshan, give the
toy to my sister, being a sister is not like a sister!"
Of course Ji Shanshan didn't want to, she held it tighter, and Ji Miaomiao was
still robbing it.
"Say why don't you listen?" Sister Ji was so angry, she rushed down and
carried Ji Shanshan over. Tian Jing wanted to stop her, but the other party
had already been beaten twice on the butt, and started crying.
Ji Miaomiao did not hide, and was taught to cry together.
"Why are you so disobedient? Do you want to ** me off?" Sister Ji sat on the
sofa. Seeing the two children still crying, her voice was raised again and she
suppressed it with brute force, "Try crying again?! I make you cry enough!"
The two daughters were really afraid of her, so they choked, stopped crying,
and blushed.
Sister Ji was suffocated in the house, she folded her legs on the sofa, pulled
a tissue, and pulled Ji Miaomiao over, wiped her tears at will, and continued
to watch the drama on the phone.
Tian Jing swallowed what she was about to say again. Sister Ji was more casual
than her in this house. The child she gave birth was also thrown to Ji’s
mother, and she didn’t do much housework. The second floor where they lived
was really messy, but no one felt it. She just didn't see anything.
Sister Ji is also a local. Her family and Ji’s mother are in the same village.
She came to Ji’s house with Brother Ji after graduating from junior high
school. They have been here for more than ten years. Usually they speak local
dialects at home, and she doesn’t understand them, so they are more intimate.
Besides Ji Huai, he only has a daughter in this family.
I heard that Ji’s sister-in-law had not been pregnant for seven or eight
years. Later, Ji’s mother took her to take medicine everywhere. Only then did
she give birth to two daughters. It was not easy to give birth, but she didn’t
care much.
"I heard that you were a daughter?" The drama on the mobile phone was playing
commercials, and Sister Ji rarely raised her head and asked Tian Jing.
Tian Jing was making beautiful braids for her daughter, and nodded when she
heard her words.
"Why are you also a daughter? It's easier to be pregnant with a boy." Sister
Ji said in her words, but her gloating is not well hidden, and she is quite
happy to see it.
Of course she didn’t want Tian Jing to give birth to a boy. Ji’s mother’s
Mandarin was not good, so she didn’t communicate with Tian Jing very much, and
she could still talk with her. Sin, of course I don't want Tian Jing
comfortable.
We will suffer together.
Tian Jing narrowed her expression and continued to braid her daughter,
"Whatever you are pregnant, this can't be controlled."
"Then you are going to kill, right?" Sister Ji said after she finished
speaking, "I think it's easier to give birth, but it's hard to give birth. In
fact, it's the same thing to kill, and it's pregnant with a boy."
In that tone, there seemed to be a little regret for having a second one.
Tian Jing didn't return her, and didn't know how to return.
Ji Huai was right. Sister Ji also wanted to give birth to a boy. She believed
that she had to be born. She was on the united front with Ji’s mother. There
was no pressure on her to stay in this home. Someone helped her bring the baby
for free, and she only Will feel bad, thinking about how to give birth to a
boy.
Although she had been sitting in the confinement, sister Ji didn't take it
seriously, and sometimes she didn't take it seriously. The confinement who had
not been sitting for long last time wandered around in a miniskirt.
The TV series began, and Sister Ji continued to watch her play regardless of
whether she returned.
Tian Jing put on her daughter's hairpin. Ji Tianqi was still very narcissistic
and wanted to look at herself in the mirror. Tian Jing turned on the front
camera of her mobile phone to let her see, and pulled her braid twice, and the
other party giggled.
Looking at her daughter's smile, she also smiled softly.
"Come over for dinner." Ji Mu shouted in a local dialect. This sentence is the
only local sentence Tian Jing has learned, but Ji Tianqi has learned better
than her standards.
That night, Ji Tianqi still mimicked what Ji Mu said.
"You go and teach your mother that she can't." Ji Huai smiled at his daughter
and asked her to teach Tian Jing.
When Tian Jing got married, Grandpa Ji was still there, and the old man could
not listen to Mandarin. When Tian Jing went to deliver him food, he stumbled
and said non-standard local language.
"Mom, would you say'for dinner?'" When Ji Tianqi heard that there was
something her mother didn't understand, she ran over, shaking her two braids.
"Mother won't." Tian Jing knew that she was not standard and didn't plan to
lose face in front of her daughter.
"I teach you." Ji Tianqi pursed her little mouth, as if she was going to be a
little teacher.
Tian Jing saw Ji Huai staring here, waiting for a good show, she said to her
daughter, "Neither will Dad, you go teach Dad first."
"Dad will." Ji Tianqi said and lit her head, compelling, "Mum won't."
Ji Huai leaned on the bed, with raised eyebrows. Tian Jing, who was unable to
lose sight of her daughter, could only follow her daughter. She tried to
imitate, but she still had an accent. Ji Tianqi kept saying wrong, like a real
little teacher, pulling her and saying, Talking over and over again.
Tian Jing was embarrassed, but didn't lose his temper. She followed her
daughter seriously and interacted with her.
He looked at the mother and daughter and kept his eyes on them.
The meaning of life is nothing more than hope and hope, not a stagnant pool.
There is a big difference between love and non-love. A word from someone who
doesn't love can make people irritable, and someone who loves is quite patient
with what she does. Marriage is trivial and exhausting, and the right person
will feel bitter and sweet.
Since Sister Ji’s confinement, Tian Jing has lost a lot of work. It is not how
much work the other party has done, but that she takes her two daughters to go
shopping every other day, and Ji mother does not need to help her watch two A
child is naturally free to do a lot of things.
Her life is more chic than them. Brother Ji will give her three thousand yuan
every month. She has never paid for the food at home. If Mother Ji asks, she
will say that the money is with Brother Ji, but Brother Ji does not give it
again. It's not that she didn't give it. For her son, Ji's mother also closed
her eyes. Both children are in school.
Every time she looked at the snacks she bought back, Tian Jing had a headache,
the children were greedy, and Ji Tianqi was clamoring to eat it again and
again, but her stomach was weak, so she did not dare to let her eat it, so she
could only try not to let her daughter see it. Tell her storybooks in the room
as much as possible to attract her attention.
Sister-in-law Ji observed Tian Jing for a few days, and found that the other
party had no intention of having a baby, so she asked Ji's mother around the
corner, "Mom, are Ji Huai and the rest going to give birth?"
In fact, she heard Ji Mu said that she wanted to get rid of it.
"No birth, it must be killed, how can you afford it?" Ji Mu was knocking the
seeds and replied casually.
"When the month is old, you must fight quickly? You have to sit in the
confinement, which is also a crime. The confinement has to sit well. After
all, her body is also weak. Didn't she fall into red when she was pregnant?" ,
The tone is still very concerned.
She gave birth very quickly, and there was no discomfort in hitting the baby.
Moreover, she certainly didn’t want Tian Jing to be born. Ji Mu had already
worked hard to take her two daughters. If she were to be born, she would have
to take them too. Tian Jing still had to go to work. What she allocated was
her resources. Of course she was not happy. .
After Tian Jing was killed, she had to conceive a boy as soon as possible, so
that her status could be guaranteed and her father and mother could help her
raise her.
"Ji Huai said he was busy recently, and I have waited for a while." Mother Ji
grabbed a handful of melon seeds, "Who knows how they discussed it? Two
pictures were taken as girls, so I can't be wrong."
Girls don’t have to be born, save trouble.
"Then you have to make an appointment first. If he is available, the doctor
may not be available." Sister Ji said, remembering that when she asked Tian
Jing to beat the child, the other party did not reply, and continued, "I think
Tian Jing seems It’s the same if you don’t know anything, do you have to drag
this matter?"
Hearing this, Ji Mu's rate of eating melon seeds slowed down, and when she
thought that the other party didn't ask them for money, she had a bad guess,
and her face didn't look good.
That evening, when the family was having dinner, Ji Mu directly asked Ji Huai
at the dinner table, "When did you go and beat the child? I have ordered a few
old hens, and then I will help her up. Take it, she has a good rest and just
sits in the confinement."
"This matter can't be delayed. If you drag it for a day, the child will absorb
an extra day. You don't know how your wife is?"
She spoke in the local dialect. Tian Jing could understand it very quickly.
She lowered her head and Ji Tianqi was sitting on her lap. She silently fed
her daughter.
"Yes, if you don't want to, don't delay. The doctor who performed the
operation on me is an acquaintance of ours. Do you want to contact you? I did
it both times by her." Sister Ji also answered, her tone of voice Discussing
what food to eat today is very casual.
How could Tian Jing not see clearly the faces of these people? Su Ri Li's
still peaceful relationship is like being torn apart by force, are they bad
guys? There seems to be no evil, are they good people? But it's so evil.
"No, let's go to a regular hospital." Ji Huai refused, and he still had half a
month to pay his salary. He wanted to delay it.
Sister Ji gnawed chicken wings slowly and said, "Regular hospitals also have
to make an appointment. You have to take care of this."
Ji's mother looked at Tian Jing and then at Ji Huai. She still understood her
own son. She didn't ask them for money or ask her what to pay attention to.
She used to listen to her everything and could not be so quiet. Ever since I
married this foreign daughter-in-law, I couldn't hear it well. I always felt
that the other party was right. How many disputes did she have with her about
raising children?
She looked at Tian Jing and pretended to have a pleasant look and said, "This
matter can't be delayed. Tomorrow Mom will get the money. He won't accompany
you, Mom will accompany you."
They also paid the money for sister-in-law Ji’s two abortions. This year a
piece of land in her hometown was expropriated, and they lost tens of
thousands of yuan, and they still had some money in their hands.
Tian Jing held her daughter's hands tightly, and looked at Ji Huai
subconsciously.
"Mom, leave our business alone." Ji Huai put down the bowl, frowned, a little
unhappy.
"Are you going to be born?" Ji Mu didn't understand anything, so she raised
her voice and cursed back. The two of them regretted it and were reluctant to
get rid of it.
The family can't afford that much, and she was born with four dead girls. How
can she have the energy to take care of them? When do you have to have a
grandson?
One more is more pressure!
"Don't give birth to you, how stressful is your elder brother and I now? Your
wife can't go out to work, then you will know that you are suffering." Sister
Ji also fanned the flames.
Ji Huai's salary is similar to that of Brother Ji. The difference is that a
hard worker has no five insurances and one housing fund, and an office has
five insurances and one housing fund, but in her opinion, there is no
difference.
"If you can't give birth, mom will hurt you?" Ji Mu was very tough, staring at
Tian Jing, with some commands, "This child can't be born, I can't take care of
that much."
Just get rid of it, why are there so many things?
Tian Jing never looked up. She was not stupid enough to openly confront Ji Mu,
just pretending to be dumb.
Ji's father also lowered his face, but his temper was not as anxious as Ji's
mother. He looked at Ji Huai and asked calmly, "What do you think? Make it
clear."
Ji Huai is honest and honest, and he doesn't think too much. How could he
suddenly change his mind?
Seeing that he couldn't hide, Ji Huai also said simply, "I can't bear it
anymore, I don't want her to fight, just keep it alive."
When he said that Ji's father and Ji's mother were mad, they didn't believe it
at all. It must have been what the foreigner's wife taught Ji Huai.
"What do you raise? Expect us to help you raise it? Don't you know how much
money you make?" Father Ji snorted coldly.
Tian Jing, a foreigner, has a lot of tricks. Unlike Sister Ji, the two
daughters are raised at a low price. The kindergarten throws out the nearby
Puhui kindergarten. She is weaned early and does not drink milk every day,
while Tian Jing does not move on high-end milk, four to five hundred. One can,
everything needs to be good, and what kind of insurance should you buy, buy
this and buy that, and spend money like water.
Another one, Ji Huai's salary is enough to toss? Tian Jing's education also
has its own set, and there is a lot of shit.
"We raise it ourselves." Ji Huai didn't shrink back, but was very firm. "I
raise one, and I raise two. I don't let you raise it."
"Did Tian Jing say she was born?" Ji Mu forced her. In her heart, it must be
the outsider, and she must be the pillow breeze.
"She doesn't want to give birth. I want her to give birth to boys or girls. I
don't care. Everything is the same." Ji Huai took the daughter in Tian Jing's
arms.
"How is it the same?" Ji Mu exploded her hair, with blue veins on her
forehead.
"I think the same is the same. Anyway, I will be born." Ji Huai refused to
give in.
Ji Mu felt that her authority had been violated, so she stood up while patted
the table, pointed at him and gave instructions one by one, "I tell you, this
child can't be born. Don't think I don't know who is behind.
This clearly refers to Sang cursing Huai.
Ji Huai really hates her appearance. It reminds him that his previous life
also forced him to marry and have children. It was like a fertility tool that
kept kidnapping him.
They were scolding in their hometown dialect. Tian Jing listened very much. Ji
Huai stood up with her hands, as if she was rebellious, and said with her lips
and her face closed, "I can't decide to give birth to my child. Doesn't give
birth? No one says it's useless. I want to give birth and I want to raise.
What does it matter to me if you disagree?
He was very angry, and said that he was about to take Tian Jing away. Ji’s
mother and Ji’s father were very excited. She originally wanted to calm him
down. Ji Huai yelled at her, "I don’t agree with you. Want to fight! Don't
talk so much, just don't fight."
Tian Jing was taken aback by him and froze in the same place. It was the first
time he saw him make such a big fire.
Ji Huai "vigorously" pulled her aside, "Go upstairs!":,,