Chapter 785 of 1032
Chapter 785: The foolish and filial man in a patriarchal family (7)
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Although Tian's mother heard that the two had a conflict with the Ji family
before moving out, she didn't expect the problem to be so serious. Tian Jing
was married away from home, and there was such a troublesome husband's family.
She couldn't calm down and was really worried.
After Ji's mother and Ji's father left, the atmosphere in the room was also
solemn. Tian Jing didn't have any interest in drinking soup. She put her spoon
against the bed, silent and calm.
The child born in October of pregnancy, desperately lives, that is her baby,
is so despised, so angry that he is in the mood to eat?
Tian's mother looked at her two granddaughters and thought about what happened
to her daughter. Isn't it that she didn't give birth to her son and was
disliked? When she looked at Tian Jing, she couldn't help her face being sad,
"She is your mother-in-law, and the relationship is so bad, and she may be so
miserable in the future. If this child is a boy, it will be fine.
She didn't have any bad intentions. She simply felt that her daughter was not
easy. Now she has such bad luck. Both children are daughters. What can I do in
the future?
Not giving birth, stress, giving birth, suffering and raising another child.
Tian Jing's body was already recovering, tired easily, she didn't refute when
she heard Tian's mother, her lips were tight, and she leaned against the wall
and simply closed her eyes, not wanting to speak.
"Mom, I don't like to hear what you said, Qiqi is still here, don't pass this
thought to her, boys and girls are the same, both are children of me and
Xiaojing." Ji Huai frowned and looked to the side. Ji Tianqi, who was
listening to them, was ignorant, but he listened carefully, and his words were
serious, "We and my parents will not live together in the future. It doesn't
matter how they think, and I didn't ask Xiaojing to honor me with me. Parents,
it's me who owes them kindness, not Xiaojing, she doesn't have to have any
thought burden."
Tian's mother moved her mouth, and after pulling Ji Tianqi, she quickly said
with satisfaction, "Yes, Mom is wrong, it's okay if you don't live together."
When the son-in-law was able to pick it up, her heavy heart disappeared for
the most part.
Yes, why should her daughter bear it? The Ji family did not give birth to her,
and she was still wronged after marrying. She felt very distressed and
aggrieved.
When Tian Jing heard Ji Huai's words, she opened her eyes again, feeling much
better, her eyes fell on him, and she said lightly, "I don't want to go back
this year. You go back by yourself."
"That's not okay? It's a big Chinese New Year." Tian's mother was anxious. She
felt that this was too much. She couldn't provide any help to her daughter.
She didn't dare to make her daughter and her mother-in-law quarrel too stiff,
and it would be unreasonable to be discussed behind the scenes. .
Tian Jing stayed unmoved, sat up and continued to drink soup, "I did not worry
about having this baby, and my health was not good. After sitting for
confinement, I still don’t know if I can raise it better. Just now, your
mother was so to her daughter. After we go back, we Can I have good fruit to
eat? I will feel angry when I go back."
I'm so annoying, what was Ji Mu's behavior just now? Being a mother is simply
intolerable. She felt that even if she gave birth to a boy, the other party
didn't like it, but she wanted a boy with inherited genitals.
Tian Jing directly referred to Ji’s mother as your mother this time. Besides,
Ji’s father and Ji’s mother would not expect to see this child. Ji Huai also
agreed at the moment, "Okay, I will go back by myself. I can’t live there
anyway, go back. Just come back, take care of yourself, don’t get angry."
Tian Mu observed and found that Ji Huai was not dissatisfied, and she was
quietly relieved.
In the afternoon, Tian Jing was discharged from the hospital and went home for
confinement.
The baby is really troublesome. This child is even more troublesome than Ji
Tianqi. He cries all day long and has to hold it when he sleeps. When he puts
it down, he wakes up and toss people.
But Tian Jing thought it was okay. Ji Mu didn't help her at all, so she
brought it up to her when the meal arrived. She looked at the child and didn't
want to help at all.
It's Tian's mother now. It's his own mother. Anyone who can help her will help
her, and she can sleep during the day.
Ji Huai is afraid that Ji Tianqi is emotional, so between the two children,
his focus will be slightly biased towards the eldest daughter. When Tian Jing
and Tian's mother were taking care of the youngest daughter, he was watching
cartoons with each other, or he went to take care of the youngest daughter and
asked Tian Jing to play intellectual games with the eldest daughter.
The family is getting along fairly harmoniously, the baby slowly grows apart,
exactly the same as Ji Tianqi when he was a child, Tian's mother missed Ji
Tianqi's growth, so she was very affectionate and loving to this little
daughter.
The talents of the Ji family don't care what name the child should be named.
The name was chosen by Tian Jing, Ji Tianyi.
At the full moon, there was no big event, but there were also ceremonies.
Jihuai spent several thousand yuan, booked a private room in the hotel,
ordered a table of dishes, and invited better colleagues and friends to
celebrate.
Ji Tianyi did not receive the blessings of the Ji family, but he also received
a lot of blessings. I don't want to give red envelopes at first, but everyone
is still stuck.
Ji Huai also thought that when Ji Tianqi was born, she didn't do anything
because she was a girl, and promised Ji Tianqi that when she celebrated her
third birthday, she would definitely decorate her with more beautiful
decorations.
Ji Tianqi laughed, very happy, and kissed him, "Thank you, Dad."
Tian's mother thought that they were both daughters, and Ji Huai would be a
little unhappy. Tian Jing was not afraid that he was upset, but that he felt
regretful.
Ji Huai still has a sense of responsibility to his family. He will listen to
many opinions about his parents. This is indeed not a trivial matter, and she
is more serious about it. If he shows other emotions, she will be chilled.
Fortunately, he didn't. Although he didn't express too much about the two
daughters, he could feel his love, the love in the eyes of the heart, and
there was no dissatisfaction at all because they were daughters.
Since Ji Huai’s salary rises, their lives are fairly well-off, but the things
he buys for the child, for her, and for the family are not bad. They all have
to use the best within their abilities. Spending money is like running water.
He didn't agree with Jing wanting to save.
Throughout the year, only those year-end bonuses are saved.
In a blink of an eye, Tian's mother has also been here for half a year. The
original thought was that she would take care of Tian Jing for a few months,
waiting for her confinement, and Ji Tianqi was already in kindergarten, and
Tian Jing could relax a little bit, so she sent Tian's mother back.
But this year Tian Jing didn't return to Ji's house, and because she felt
sorry for her daughter to bring two children alone, Tian's mother didn't want
to go back to celebrate the New Year. She stayed and helped her daughter.
She sighed, "If I go back, I don't know when I will come next time. You are
carrying the big one and the small one. How tired is that?"
Tian Jing thought for a while, then said, "If you don't go back, there will be
only father and elder brother at home. What's the flavor of that year?"
People in the small mountain villages are still very traditional in thinking.
During the New Year, everyone in the family will come back to live for a
while, and everyone else's home will be lively and lively, but their home is
deserted and deserted.
Tian's mother didn't know how to return. Tian's father and brother Tian were
all rough, and the daughter-in-law in question hadn't come in yet. There was
no woman in the family, so she really didn't know what she was like.
Ji Huai was playing jigsaw puzzles with Ji Tianqi, and said, "Well, I will buy
air tickets for Dad and Brother so that they can also come here to celebrate
the New Year. Let's have fun together and have fun by the way."
"Forget it, how much does it cost? You still have two children. If you can
save it, it's not necessary." Tian Mu refused when she heard it, for fear of
spending their money.
"It's also my fault. Xiaojing has been married for so long. I haven't asked my
dad to come here to play with you. Let them come this time. Get together
together. That's all. , I will buy air tickets for dad and brother.” Ji Huai
insisted, and asked by the way, “Big brother still has a fiancee, and I will
ask her if she will come, and I will buy her tickets by the way. Everyone will
go back during the Chinese New Year. , The hotel is not expensive and cost-
effective."
Tian Jing really wanted her family to come. Father Tian met Ji Huai. When she
decided to get married, she took Ji Huai back and stayed for a day. Father
Tian had not seen her child either.
Tian's mother is mainly afraid that they will spend money, she can't help her
daughter, and she feels guilty that she has to hold her back. But when the
son-in-law said so, she could only agree.
Father Tian is reluctant to leave the small mountain village. Like Mother
Tian, he doesn’t know anything about things outside, but his daughter and
wife are there. This time he is going with his son again. He talks about
trouble, but he still knows nothing in his heart. very happy.
The air ticket was also bought by the son-in-law, and he said that he would
take him to play. This feeling is the same as the feeling that his daughter
and son suddenly felt good. Anyway, it is proud. Before going there, he showed
off in a low-key manner in the village. He looked at the enviable eyes of
others. Don't mention how good the mood is.
His daughter is the first major college student in the village, and now she
has let him go to the big city to play, can she be upset?
Brother Tian's girlfriend is also from the village and has no culture, but the
two have a good relationship. They are already engaged. They plan to get
married in the middle of the year and want to go see them. Ji Huai booked the
air tickets together.
The house rented by Tian Mu was definitely not enough, so Ji Huai booked two
hotel rooms and waited for them to come.
When the Tian family came, they had a meal together, and went to nearby
tourist attractions. Tian Jing was accompanied by the Tian family, and she
looked better than before.
When she returned to bed that day, she whispered, "Thank you."
Although she has been relatively independent since she was a child, she has
lived alone since she was admitted to the junior high school in the town, but
she also has a family who loves her, but because she is married far away and
cannot be reunited with her family, she will still be sad and regretful when
she thinks about it.
"It should be. If parents want to come in the future, we will buy them air
tickets for as long as they can stay. I hope they can visit you frequently and
stay with you." Ji Huai said with apologies and said truthfully. "Before
getting married, I said you would go back whenever you want to go back, but
later found that it is impossible. It is very inconvenient to go back once,
and there are various things. This time I hope my parents live longer, and the
money can be spent. Make more money, but I don't know when the next time,
because my parents may not be free to come."
Hearing this, Tian Jing looked down.
This is indeed the case. It’s troublesome to come back and forth, and it’s
troublesome to go back. She also thinks that if her parents live longer, she
will be more happy. It is really easy and happy to have parents by her side.
On New Year's Eve, the Tian family accompanied Tian Jing. Ji Huai took the
bought gifts and went to the bank to fetch two thousand yuan. He returned to
Ji's house alone, and the tenant returned to his hometown. Now the Ji family
are left in the house.
Brother Ji and sister-in-law Ji were both here. At the end of the year, the
two had a fierce quarrel, but now they are better again. When Ji Huai came
back, she was lying in the living room gnawing melon seeds with her high belly
alone.
When Ji Mu saw him coming back, she didn't give him a good face. She looked
behind him and said, "Where is the outsider?"
What a foreigner, and foreigners are not good things!
Ji Huai looked unhappy, but still said, "Xiaojing's parents are here, to
accompany her parents today."
"Her parents are here? Are you here to * blood? Come to you for money?"
When Ji Mu heard this, her eyes widened, and she sternly said, "I tell you,
don't give a penny. I asked you not to You didn’t listen to marrying this
foreigner, okay now? People treat you as stupid and catch you to * blood!
Everything is given to the mountain people, do you think you are stupid?!"
In her opinion, outsiders are poor, stupid, and greedy. They are all beggars
in the ravines. How can they be compared with her "city people"?
Ji Huai couldn't resist asking, raising his voice, "What do I have for others
to be greedy? Is rich or entitled? Have you ever asked about my wife giving
birth? Or is my mother-in-law taking care of me from the mountains, so what do
we have for others to be greedy? Jian The money for the house has not yet been
paid back. Do you have a pension? Do you have money? Did you give the gift?
What are they greedy for?"
Ji Mu was speechless, but she quickly found a point and jumped back and fought
back, "Why didn't I take care of it? I didn't agree to give birth at the
beginning. If I give birth to a boy, can I not take care of it? I'm sure to
take care of it. she was"
Before he finished speaking, he interrupted in a deep voice, "You have a boy
all day long. You are also a girl. Can you decide if you have a boy or a girl?
Didn't your grandma give birth to you? You don’t have a lot of family
possessions, and you need to have a boy. Inheritance, the house is not
enough!"
Ji Mu could not say that he could not say, hysterically scolded, "Anyway, you
are going to give birth to a boy. The daughter belongs to someone else's
family. The water thrown out by a married woman will laugh at you without a
boy. No matter how much money you make, it’s useless. Nothing works!"
Sister Ji and Brother Ji were also there. When they heard this, they did not
show any disapproval on their faces, but felt reasonable. Sister Ji looked at
her high bulging belly, her eyes were even more annoying.
It's a girl again, bad luck!
Ji Huai was unmoved at all, and his tone was even more ridiculous, "Does it
matter what I said, it's not you who are here to laugh, who will laugh at me?
What are you laughing at me? Did they give birth to a boy and brought Jinshan
or Yinshan? Yes. Can I not work for the rest of my life or get rewarded by the
state? I think they are a joke!"
"Did the outsider teach you?" Ji Mu turned blue, and shouted again, "Divorce!
Divorce her right away! Divorce her right away! Did you hear about the divorce
right away from outsiders?!"
Now that she has regretted her intestines, she shouldn't let this outsider
come in. She doesn't want to call Tian Jing's name now. It's all the evil
outsider, outsiders in the valley!
"You are not qualified to join my marriage. I don't think you welcome me to go
home for the New Year. This little money is my honor to you. I will not eat
any more food. I will leave." Ji Huai did not quarrel with her. Put the gifts
aside, put two thousand yuan on the table, ready to leave.
Sister Ji saw the money, her eyes flashed, and the money had to be subsidized
to her little family in the end.
Brother Ji came out to persuade him, and each said a few words, but they were
all irrelevant. After saying that, he pulled Ji Huai aside, "Don't worry about
mom, it's all a family, can mom still harm you?" Your family is closest to
you, so don't be angry with your mother."
Ji Huai didn't believe that he came to persuade him to make peace. Since he
moved out to the present, it has been months since his father and mother Ji
couldn't bear to send him a message. Big Brother Ji would never know about
this, right? They didn't care.
The other party has been selfish since he was young, and most of them heard
that he didn't have his share of the house if he didn't come back, and hoped
that he wouldn't come back.
"Don't she just want to harm my daughter? Isn't it a harm? Isn't it a death to
kill? Isn't that my child? Isn't that the life I owe? Is she angry with me or
am I angry with her?" Ji Huai asked in a series of rhetorical questions.
Brother Ji's face changed and he couldn't answer the conversation.
In this way, he owes too many lives, but it is not their birth, nothing has
been paid, everything is a woman's business, sister Ji's abortion is the same
as laying eggs, is there anything serious?
Seeing his stubbornness, Father Ji put aside his cruel words, "I tell you, if
the foreigner refuses to give birth, then you will divorce and find someone
who is willing to give birth. If you don't give birth to a boy, your mother
and I will die! We too! I don't recognize you as a son!"
No matter what Ji Huai said, he was going to give birth to a boy, and
desperately gave birth to a boy!
Without a boy, everything is meaningless.
He still doesn't believe it. It's not enough to force them to give birth to a
boy. Is it possible that Ji Huai really doesn't want his parents anymore? Just
spent time with that outsider?
Ji Huai didn't show the anxiety they wanted to see, but only left a faint
saying, "If this is the case, I can't help it."
Before he finished his words, he turned and left without eating.
Ji Mu stood up and pointed to the direction where Ji Huai had left. "What does
he mean? Promise or disapproval?! What is no way? There are so many people who
can give birth. Which woman can't have children? !"
"Tian Jing graduated from a key university, so she definitely doesn't want to
have a baby." Sister Ji said slowly.
In her opinion, Tian Jing is stupid, giving birth to a boy, both in-laws and
husbands value, and in the future, the waist will be straight, and she is a
great hero. Who dares to say her?
Isn't it good for others to make money for themselves? How tired is it to make
money on your own?
"What's wrong with graduating from a key university? I didn't come out of the
gutter? I think it was a silly reading!" Ji Mu now has a very bad impression
of Tian Jing and is extremely disgusted.
The sister-in-law Ji gave a few words of comfort, in fact, it was almost like
fanning the flames.
Ji's mother and Ji's father were called anger, and they were sure of anger to
Ji Huai, but it was their own cause, so the anger was on Tian Jing's body,
gritted his teeth with hatred.
It must be divorced. The outsider brought a family of vampires and got
divorced. Ji Huai asked Ji Huai to find another "obedient" local.
However, this was only their wishful thinking. Ji Huai left as soon as he
said. He didn't come back that year during the Chinese New Year. They vomited
blood with anger. They didn't even know where Ji Huai lived, let alone forced
a divorce, and called. , People say busy, at work.
In a perfunctory remark, if it wasn't for something, Ji Huai would hang up the
phone before they got angry.
During the Chinese New Year this year, the company took a week off. The Tian
family also stayed for a week. Ji Huai took them to play around, and the
family got along fairly happily.
When discussing going back, Tian's mother hesitated and didn't want to leave.
Tian Jing's youngest daughter was only a few months old and was very
troublesome. Although Ji Huai can send Ji Tianqi to kindergarten in the
morning, Tian Jing has to pick it up in the afternoon, and take the small one
to pick up the big one. When he comes back, he is busy cooking and washing
clothes. Where can he survive?
"Forget it, I won't leave, I will stay here and take care of the two children
a little bit older." Tian Mu made up her mind.
The Ji family is definitely not reliable. After a few months, she is also used
to life here. In the final analysis, it is more interesting here. She is in
poor health and can't do farm work when she goes back. It's better to stay and
help her daughter. .
Ji Huai made a suggestion, "Or dad stay and live for a while? The chopsticks
are not bad at home, and mom is not alone."
Father Tian definitely disagrees. Brother Tian is also a bit hesitant. If
there are more than a dozen acres of land in the family, if he is alone, his
parents are here. What will he do when he goes back alone?
And getting married in the middle of the year, there are many things.
Ji Huai said, "The harvest at home is there. I suggest that my eldest brother
and sister-in-law come out to work. There are many opportunities here.
Xiaojing and I will find jobs for you. Even if we go to the factory, we will
cost five to six thousand per month. Two people are tens of thousands, which
is better than farming at home."
They didn't think about it, they fell into deep thought, Tian Fu struggled, "I
can't leave the things in the house? What should I do if the things in the
house are all out?"
Tian Jing used to be unable to take them out, and her parents did not dare to
come out. She would rather stay in her comfort zone. If her brother came out,
it would be bad if only the parents were left at home. No one would take care
of them. Now they are all out. I don’t want them to go back again and persuade
them, “How much can the things at home be worth? How much savings can you and
mom have for a lifetime of hard work? Big brother and sister-in-law are still
so young, do you really continue to farm?"
"Although the rent is expensive here, the salary is also high. If two people
rent a house several thousand yuan a month, they can still save several
thousand, tens of thousands or even tens of thousands a year. Tens of
thousands? The price is not good, and it will work for nothing in a year. Try
it first, if it doesn’t work, you can go back again."
Brother Tian’s fiancée is also a young girl in the mountains. She came here to
see the bustling city, and she didn’t want to go back to farming. She
stretched out the hand of Brother Latian, and whispered, “Or, let’s stay and
find a job. It’s okay to save some money and go back to open a shop."
Young people who want to farm? Face the loess and back to the sky.
Besides, the sister-in-law is here, there are people to help, working in the
field and earning tens of thousands a year is not the same as working in the
shop to earn tens of thousands a year.
Brother Tian thought for a while and agreed, "Okay! Let's stay and try."
He had only been to the provincial capital to work as far as he was, and his
salary was not high, because he had no diploma, no skills, and the place was
backward. The factory in the provincial capital included food and housing, and
he only paid two thousand five thousand a month. Tian Jing had also persuaded
him to come out before, but he did not dare to come out this time, but also
moved his mind to stay.
His sister is here, and his parents are here, so he has nothing to worry
about. Ji Huai originally rented a house to Tian’s mother, and the addition of
Tian’s father would not affect her. However, for Tian Jing, she was so happy,
not because it was easy for her parents to help her take care of her children,
but I am really happy to have my parents by my side.
With her family there, she doesn't need to be homesick.
The Tian family decided to stay, but Big Brother Tian and his fiancee had to
go back to deal with matters and obtain certificates, and rent out the land at
home at a low price, and then come back to look for work.
Ji Huai originally wanted to help him find it, but others were diligent and
went to find a job delivering express delivery. When they saw him being
simple, they hired him right away.
The salary has a basic salary, but if you add money according to the delivery,
if you are diligent, it will be five or six thousand yuan a month. Sister Tian
finds a relatively easy job. When she goes to a hotel as a waiter, she can get
nearly four thousand, and she also includes food. Wrap around.
The two have an income of 10,000, and they can save a little bit a month, and
they can still save four or five thousand. The two have goals and want to work
hard for a few years first. If they can't stay longer and save money, they
will go back to the town to buy a house instead of staying in the mountain
village.
Whenever they think so, both of them are very motivated.